Struggling to Receive Grace?
Grace is everywhere—overflowing, unearned, unconditional. Yet many of us struggle to receive it. Why?
• Ego resists grace. Like the Pharisee in Luke 18, we want to prove ourselves. But God isn’t impressed by competency—He desires intimacy. Grace humbles us because it’s a gift, not a trophy.
• A Santa Claus mindset blocks grace. Jonah wanted grace for “his people” and judgment for the Ninevites. But Scripture says, “The grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people” (Titus 2:11). Grace is not earned. It’s for everyone.
• A wrong image of God distorts grace. If you picture God as a scale-keeper—measuring, rationing, rewarding—you’ll always feel shortchanged. But the vineyard parable reminds us: grace is abundant, unfairly generous, and always more than enough.
I once watched my father-in-law model this beautifully. He was a giver all his life, but in his later years, I saw him receive—allowing others to care for him with humility and peace. That’s grace: knowing how to give and how to receive.
The real question is—can you? Can you let God love you without earning it? Can you receive without resisting?
“Out of His fullness we have all received grace in place of grace already given.”
—John 1:16
Grace to you,
Cedric
Traditionalwriter@yahoo.com
• Ego resists grace. Like the Pharisee in Luke 18, we want to prove ourselves. But God isn’t impressed by competency—He desires intimacy. Grace humbles us because it’s a gift, not a trophy.
• A Santa Claus mindset blocks grace. Jonah wanted grace for “his people” and judgment for the Ninevites. But Scripture says, “The grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people” (Titus 2:11). Grace is not earned. It’s for everyone.
• A wrong image of God distorts grace. If you picture God as a scale-keeper—measuring, rationing, rewarding—you’ll always feel shortchanged. But the vineyard parable reminds us: grace is abundant, unfairly generous, and always more than enough.
I once watched my father-in-law model this beautifully. He was a giver all his life, but in his later years, I saw him receive—allowing others to care for him with humility and peace. That’s grace: knowing how to give and how to receive.
The real question is—can you? Can you let God love you without earning it? Can you receive without resisting?
“Out of His fullness we have all received grace in place of grace already given.”
—John 1:16
Grace to you,
Cedric
Traditionalwriter@yahoo.com
Recent
Archive
2026
January
One of the Best Things to Have in LifeGood New YorkerGood ShepherdCan I Be Angry?Bottom-Up & Top-DownDesire Reveals DesignOne of My Favorite Verses in the Old TestamentStanding or KneelingAre We Trapped in Privilege?Love That Refuses to Let GoSweet SpotThrone RoomBlinded and BlessedYou Can’t QuitNeed a Little Motivation?When Mercy Has the Last WordMercy Is Your Best DefenseThe Fight of FormationThe God Who Gives God AwayWhen God’s Time Meets Your TimeGod’s Overwhelming GenerosityTeach Us to Use Our Time WellSomething Is Wrong with EverythingGrace Is Easy to MissShow People Your Skills Before Your NeedsFailure Doesn’t Happen OvernightLonging for Things to Be Good Again?
February
God’s Overwhelming GenerosityLove Is Not LawlessWhat You Really Want from GodPlaying God?God Is Not Disappointed With YouGrace With GearsPlaying God?Will to LiveA God Who Pursues, Not PunishesGrace or Control? The Greatest Trap Isn't What You ThinkYour biggest fear might be your biggest opportunity CopyEnter God’s Rest — The Golden Key Rise Above the Basement VoicesGet Out of Grace’s WayPainful but Profitable
March
I Know You’re Hungry for SomethingHow Much Longer?I Know You’re Hungry for SomethingUse Your EdgeWhy Don’t People Finish Life Well?Get It DoneWhy Did This Happen to Me?Balcony or Basement People?Life Is Short. Live.Run Through the TapeThe Golden HourFinal Reflections from the RoadKeep It PositiveTrying to Make Sense of It All
April
2025
July
A God Who Pursues, Not PunishesStop Giving Yourself a PassWelcome to the Broken & Messy Christian ClubStitched Together ClothesGrace or Control?The Greatest Trap Isn't What You ThinkSurround Yourself with Good PeopleWhen Work Feels EmptyChristians Are a Mess—Before and AfterDidn't Have a Clue of What Grace WasGreat at Receiving Grace—but Poor at Giving It?Are You Standing in the Way of Grace?Still Playing the Old Game?A New Beginning Starts HereAfter SixtyJesus’ Rhythm: A Life Worth ImitatingDeserts: Where God Does His Deepest WorkSeeing the Whole Field: Trusting God in Suffering
Categories
no categories
2 Comments
Great message
Thank you for the message today. I struggle with receiving grace. This devotional helps me to understand why I have such a hard time with it. Scripture to back it up only reaffirmed the message. Most grateful